Well well I didnt know that my modest blog will get this super hot response from readers... thanks to you people out there from the bottom of my heart. When I started this blog, I was not thinking of the risks and unaware of the fate that was to befall me. I take it as a lesson, and my friends told me not to bother with all those hurting words..well, to me, they can say anything, but to touch on my personal things such as my kids, thats different. So if someone wants to get even then get even with something in common not to touch on my personal live. Lets leave the kids alone, you dont have to tell the whole world that I am the mother of 4 and I should remember where my place as a mother. Thank you for your concern dear... If not for me, my kids will not be alive by now. I know my place and my responsibility and you know something? my kids love me very very much. For your info, my eldest is already reaching 16 years old.. and to see your comments in my blog, shes not ashamed of me, but she is very disappointed in you.. yes, as a repentant, you should know how to approach someone who you feel needs the guidance. But to misbehave in my blog, thats something unacceptable. I always be open to my kids, and they to me, so we treat each other with respect. But whatever it is, I hope you dont feel bitter, I wish you get the same love as I am getting, for you to mention about me of taking guys money, thats a joke.. I wonder who is that lucky guy!! If only you knew how many guys who wish to out with me, you will be surprised..yes..Im not that easy as you think my friend. And I am not cheap as you mentioned in your comment. Oh yeah, its because I have found the love of my life.. we are happy.. And insyaallah, you will find someone who will love you too..and thus will end your bitterness. Like me, I have both, the love from my kids and the love from my man ...so stop feeling pitiful and move on..I know there is someone for everyone of us..only it takes time to find the right person..