& Monday, October 09, 2006
Nothing much to talk about today..im bored..
Niece slept over yesterday and heard shes coming again tonight..I think shes hooked up on me..maybe she realised that Im her best aunt..right Princess ?? (Now both aunts, Georgeous Aunt and Me call her, Princess Armadela of Yishun, short for PAY)
Oh where is she..its like 10.30pm already and no shadow of her..(yelah tak de bayang)??Shes like my own daughter..I love her shes cute and mischievious..Only last night she asked me if she and her bf look compatible..hmm..as an aunt I have to tell her the truth right..so I told her she looks older than her companion, her bf looks younger than her..and now she doesnt want to be seen with him..hmm..thats bad Princess, age and looks dont matter anymore in this society. LOVE captures everything, follow your heart dear, end of the day its you who need to be happy. So if he loves you, then any other reasons is not an obstacle.. I ll give my blessing. As long as you know you limitation ahhhhhh ;)
Will there be a problem if a woman who is older hvg a relationship with a man who is much younger than her? I think that its not impossible, it takes courage and determination but will there be a problem? What kind of price you have to pay? hmm..I dont know. I wish I know the answer. To have this kind or relationship..both have to be ready and willing to take the risk. Its always 50-50%, either go all the way and be happy with it, or stop half way and be miserable all your live.
Friends and family play the biggest role in this matter, they are the ones who will give their blessings and opinions. But is it fair to the both of them that they have to stop the relationship becos of age difference? What if their relationship already so far, like a few months or some years and both have shown their affection towards each other and in the end they have to go their separate ways.
Will this take a toll on both of them..the ones in love? Some who went thru said it hurts like hell,, maybe you 'd wish that you'd never wake up. Maybe you gonna end up in bed for few weeks if not months..
Why would you go thru all this hardship when you know that he or she is the ONE for you? Well only they can give that perfect reason why..perhaps to be fair, to the guys? Older women tend to have complication during pregnancy which could be true too..In this case, I think guys, you should have faith in yourself, and be firm about it. To love that perfect woman and to have kids with her is miracle. My friend, she was 39 when she gave birth to her 3rd child..when she remarried. What a cutie, now hes 2 years old.. as for me no one asked me if I'm willing to have another kids...well frankly, I love kids and I dont mind to have 1 or 2 more. The problem is to have that right man beside you when you in labour, to give you support and love that you need during that crucial time. Nothing i simpossible, its all about love, and the right persons to be with. We only live once so please make the right decision ppl.
As an older woman, we dont ask much, but we willing to give more and in return, we want love and affection and security from the man we call husband no matter how old or young he is.
End of the day, both will be happy and enjoy the gifts of lives. .. the fruits of their love. That is the bottom ingredient, Love portion. So lets us spread some luvvvvvvvvvvvvv hehe
- Sherrie-
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